Siblings and Questions

Siblings and questions

Has anyone ever asked you about your brother or sister’s disability, illness or special educational needs? Maybe a friend, someone at school, or even a stranger?

It can feel really tricky – especially if you don’t know what to say, or you just don’t want to talk about it. That’s completely okay.

Here are a few ideas that might help:

If you want to answer:

• Keep it simple – you don’t have to explain everything
• Try something like “my brother is autistic, it means he finds some things harder than other people sometimes”
• Remember – you are helping people understand

If you don’t want to answer:

• It’s okay to say “I’d rather not talk about it”
• Talk about something else instead
• You never have to share anything you don’t want to

If you’re not sure what to say:

• Talk to a trusted adult beforehand so you feel ready
• Practice with a grown up at home
• You could carry a small card explaining your brother or sister’s needs – many siblings find this really helpful

Remember – it’s always your choice what you share and what you don’t. But sometimes helping people understand can make things feel a little easier.

You can find lots more help and support, including tips for tricky situations, at sibs.org.uk/youngsibs 💛