People stare at my brother or sister
Siblings can feel embarrassed
It can feel really embarrassing when this happens. People stare when they see something or someone different.
People are usually just curious but some people can be rude; this can happen when a disabled person goes into a café or shop. Sometimes we get worried about this and then we notice it every time we go out.
'I like to see people talking to my brother, he can not talk but it makes him laugh. I am not too keen on the people who stare because that’s rude and a bit mean. I love my brother very much.’ Nadia
Tips
If you are uncomfortable going out all the time with your brother or sister, ask your parent if you can stay at home or with a friend sometimes.
When you go out try this: Think of all the nice things that are happening - like the people who look friendly, the things you like in the shops, the nice food you are eating. When we concentrate really hard on the nice things, we don’t notice the other things so much.
Talk to your parent about how you feel when people stare.
